The pros and cons of a starter marriage by Wistar Murray | May 12, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships What is a starter marriage? Well, obviously it’s the beautiful union between a starter wife or a starter husband and their starter spouse. Gorgeous wedding, all the gifts, no children, and they’re divorced within five years. These kinds of marriages have also been called entry-level marriages, icebreaker marriages, warm-up marriages,…
Thriveworks research: Nearly 20% of Americans report differing views have negatively impacted a relationship with a coworker by Jason Crosby | May 9, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Research, Work & Careers Professional work environments are often viewed as a neutral zone where employees do their best to keep their personal lives private and opinions to themselves. However, recent Thriveworks research reveals that a large number of Americans report experiencing tension in the workplace due to clashing beliefs about some of the…
Why men tend to confess their love first and tips on when to say, “I love you” by Jason Crosby | Apr 29, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Men are often stereotyped as unemotional, cold, or even scared of commitment when it comes to settling down in romantic relationships. But science seems to indicate otherwise; recent results from a study published this year found that across three different continents and multiple cultures, men tend to profess their love…
Dry dating: How to navigate first dates without alcohol by Wistar Murray | Apr 26, 2022 | Alcohol & Drugs, Mental Health Topics, Relationships In my experience, online dating in NYC was mostly a matter of meeting at the right bar. The bar couldn’t be your local. You wanted to keep your local to yourself in case the date went sour. But the bar couldn’t be far away either because you didn’t want to…
Generational differences: Stepping outside of our personal experiences and tolerating opposing views by Jason Crosby | Apr 20, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Self-Improvement In the 1960s, “don’t trust anyone over the age of 30” was a common phrase among young people as they clashed with their elders. Social upheavals, gender role-bending, and even global violence were visceral themes that influenced politics, educational systems, fashion, music, film, and more. Every step toward the new…
There is no trust in my relationship — can we still make it work? by Emily Simonian, M.A., LMFT | Apr 19, 2022 | Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Q: I went through my boyfriend’s phone. All the girls he talked to while we were together are saved in his phone and social media, so while he was sleeping I deleted and blocked those girls. He got mad at me because he’s saying that I am trying to entrap…
Making friends at work: 6 simple dos and don’ts to help you maintain professional bonds and boundaries by Jason Crosby | Apr 15, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Work & Careers I’m guessing you have at least two people at your current workplace with whom you’re close. Okay, maybe not close enough to ask them to cat-sit this weekend but close enough that you feel comfortable sharing some details of your life outside of work. They might know your favorite sports…
Why are men and women with dark personality traits more likely to cheat on their partners? by Jason Crosby | Apr 7, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Personality, Relationships Few scandals are able to hurt a romantic partner more than infidelity. In most relationships, monogamy is not only an unspoken rule, it’s a requirement; without it, monogamous relationships just couldn’t exist. For some, this means forgoing monogamy, while some remain faithfully committed to the sole person of their choice….
Parasocial relationships: The good, the bad, and the boy bands by Wistar Murray | Mar 25, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships My five-year-old daughter has a self-professed “crush” on Tae Young, who is a cartoon member of the early 2000s fictional boy band 4*Town, which is featured in the 2022 Disney Pixar movie “Turning Red.” (I know, my head is spinning too.) I can’t tell if my daughter thinks Tae is…
New Thriveworks research shows abundance of parasocial relationships in the US by Wistar Murray | Mar 22, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships A new research study from Thriveworks shows that more Americans are engaged in parasocial relationships than they care to admit. Humans naturally form one-sided connections to media personas and public figures, even genuinely mourning their deaths. These parasocial relationships are usually harmless, though 9% of people report lasting mental health…
Providing emotional support and stability for children during a divorce by Donna Jefferson | Mar 21, 2022 | Children, Teens, & Adolescents, Mental Health Topics, Parenting, Relationships Divorce is common, but that doesn’t make it any easier to handle. Trying to process your own feelings while carrying on with day-to-day life can feel, at best, overwhelming, at worst, almost impossible. The complications that accompany divorce become far more intricate when there are children involved. Remember, no matter…
Is my marriage causing me anxiety? by Emily Simonian, M.A., LMFT | Mar 16, 2022 | Anxiety, Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Q: How do I know if my marriage is what is causing me all the anxiety I have? We fight all the time and I feel sad, mad, and exhausted every time we are both home. We don’t agree on a lot of things and we always seem to point…