Navigating relationship PTSD: Tips for healing by Hannah DeWitt | Sep 24, 2025 | Mental Health Topics, PTSD, Relationships Your last relationship ended months ago, but your body still tenses up when someone raises their voice. You find yourself constantly analyzing your new partner’s mood, searching for signs they might turn on you. Simple disagreements feel like threats, and you catch yourself either shutting down completely or preparing to…
Could attachment therapy help you heal? Here’s what to know by Ashley Laderer | Sep 10, 2025 | Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics Connection is a huge part of human experience, but that doesn’t mean it’s always easy. Many people grew up without the safe and supportive relationships that we all deserve, which affects our attachment styles—the way we connect and bond with others. Attachment matters; maybe even more than you think. “Attachment…
“I have no desire for my husband”: What to do when you drift apart from your spouse by Hannah DeWitt | Sep 9, 2025 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships If you’ve found yourself thinking “I have no desire for my husband,” it doesn’t mean your relationship is doomed. This realization can feel isolating, leaving you wondering whether to stay or leave. But there’s a third option: reconnecting. “Emotional drift often happens gradually and subtly in relationships,” says Theresa Lupcho,…
9 truly helpful things to say to someone with a mental illness (and 3 phrases to avoid) by Hannah DeWitt | Jul 22, 2025 | Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Topics, Relationships There may come a time when someone with a mental health condition—like depression, anxiety, or PTSD—needs your help. While these conditions require proper treatment from a mental health professional, you can provide meaningful support through comfort, reassurance, and simply being present. When a friend or family member says, “I’m feeling…
Therapy for couples: Improving communication and resolving conflicts by Theresa Lupcho, LPC | Feb 14, 2025 | Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Romantic relationships can be a wonderful part of life, but they aren’t without their complications. Throughout a relationship, a variety of emotions can come up — from profound happiness and elation to deep despair and anger, and everything in between. The key to creating a healthy and happy relationship is…
Why is it so hard to express my feelings? by Sarah Barness | Oct 14, 2024 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics Why is it so hard to express your feelings? If you have ever found yourself unable to put your emotions into words, you’re not alone. Expressing feelings can seem daunting, whether it’s because of fear, discomfort with vulnerability, or not knowing how to articulate complex emotions. Many of us struggle…
Understanding attachment styles and their impact on relationships by Theresa Lupcho, LPC | Jul 12, 2024 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Attachment styles are emotional bonding patterns originating from early interactions and relationships with primary caregivers. Though these patterns are not always readily noticeable, they can significantly influence adult relationships by shaping expectations and behaviors toward intimacy, connection, and dependency. Everyone has an attachment style—some are healthy and secure, while others…
What are “mommy issues,” and how can they be resolved? by Theresa Lupcho, LPC | May 8, 2024 | Mental Health Topics, Parenting Parent-child relationships aren’t always easy to navigate, and they can become fraught with tension when past conflict goes unresolved. When someone has issues with their mother, it can be difficult to know how to change things. When managing conflict in any relationship including with one’s mother, it’s important to prioritize…
Marriage advice needed: How do I restore my marriage and reconnect with my husband? by Valerie Proctor Greene, LICSW | Apr 1, 2024 | Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics Q: Marriage advice needed My marriage of over 20 years is in deep trouble. How do you reconnect with someone you have ZERO intimacy with or seem to have no meaningful relationship with? We go through day-to-day life like we are roommates. We rarely have difficult conversations about our relationship….
What is an emotional affair? by Theresa Lupcho, LPC | Mar 1, 2024 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Romantic partnerships thrive on trust, intimacy, and honesty. When something starts to infringe on or inhibit that in a relationship, it can threaten its well-being. Though physically cheating is one of the most talked about ways that such trust gets broken, emotional affairs should also be taken into account. An…
Petulant borderline personality disorder (BPD): Signs, causes, treatment options, and more by Alexandra Cromer, LPC | Sep 10, 2023 | Disorders, Mental Health Topics, Personality Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a complex and multifaceted mental health condition known for its diverse symptoms. While it affects individuals differently, a subset of BPD patients exhibit distinctive behavior patterns characteristic of what is commonly referred to as “petulant BPD.” This variant presents a unique challenge for both clinicians…
How to gain someone’s trust back: Manageable steps for rebuilding security and stability in relationships by Christine Ridley, LCSW | Jul 27, 2023 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Relationships To make mistakes is to be human—but when our actions result in us hurting someone we’re close to, it’s possible to lose their trust. And odds are, if you’re reading this, you’ve either lost someone’s trust, or are searching for ways to forgive someone for something they’ve done to you….